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A couple in bed; a man compliments the woman.
A man brings a woman a drink while she's in bed; text bubbles show their flirty exchange.
Couple on a bed looking at a phone; suggestive text bubbles.
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Couple looking at phone in kitchen.
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Couple walking upstairs; part of Pedro's Personal Stash photo casebook.
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Woman on bed looking at phone, concerned about private photos.
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Deidre's photo casebook: Day 4 of Pedro's personal stash, a couple arguing about compromising photos.
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Man in coat, thought bubbles reveal plot points; "Continues Tomorrow."
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Two men discussing whether to keep or delete photos.
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Man walking down a street, looking at his phone, thought bubbles indicate he's deciding whether to hold a ceremony.
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Deidre's photo casebook: Day 6 of Pedro's personal stash. A woman reacts to a photo on her phone.
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Couple arguing, text bubbles reveal a relationship conflict.
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Deidre's photo casebook: Pedro's personal stash, final day. A couple in bed, arguing.
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Couple in bed reacting to ex's message about private photos.
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DEIDRE SAYS: WHAT might feel cheeky and fun in a new relationship, can quickly become unsettling if things start to unravel.

The risks of allowing a partner to take nude images of you are obvious, but if you feel you can trust them and want to take that risk, at least make sure you watch them delete your images if you break up.

And to all those who still hold sexy pics of exes – do the right thing and delete them.

It’s weird and disrespectful to keep hold of images of people you are no longer together with.

The law is very clear that it is illegal to share compromising images of people without consent.

And while currently it isn’t illegal to keep images of exes, morally it’s clear that holding on to them is the wrong thing to do.

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