What is Humanism, how do Humanist funerals and weddings work and what’s the theory behind it?

HUMANISM is essentially a non-religious belief system that says THIS life is the only life we have.
Here's everything you need to know about the Humanist philosophy and where it comes from...
What is Humanism?
Humanism is a set of beliefs which focuses on human beings and rational thinking as opposed to the divine or supernatural.
is an organisation founded in 1896 which is committed to putting Humanism into practice through ceremonies and pastoral work.
On their website they explain, "Throughout recorded history there have been non-religious people who have believed that this life is the only life we have, that the universe is a natural phenomenon with no supernatural side, and that we can live ethical and fulfilling lives on the basis of reason and humanity.
"They have trusted to the scientific method, evidence and reason to discover truths about the universe and have placed human welfare and happiness at the centre of their ethical decision making.
"Today, people who share these beliefs and values are called humanists and this combination of attitudes is called Humanism."
What is the theory of Humanist behaviour?
Humanists look to science and reason to understand the world and solve human problems.
It is about unselfish concern for the welfare of others, empathy and caring for the world around us.
It includes believing in peace and social justice, equality and participation in humane ideals.
How do Humanist funerals work?
Many people opt to have Humanist funerals including celebrities such as Dale Winton and Paul Daniels.
In May 2018, which means she can conduct Humanist funerals, weddings and child naming ceremonies.
The format of a Humanist funeral is usually...
- Introductory music
- Words of welcome
- Thoughts on life and death from a non-religious perspective
- The tribute – an outline of the life and personality of the person who has died
- Readings of poetry and prose
- Reflection – a few moments for private thoughts about the person who has died, either in silence or accompanied by music
- The committal – when the curtains are closed or coffin lowered
- Closing words – including thanks on your behalf
- Final music
How do Humanist weddings work?
Humanist weddings are tailored to the couple with no specific structure or script.
They are conducted by a celebrant - who takes the place of a vicar, minister or priest.
An example structure is...
- Arrival of the couple (individually or together)
- Introductions and welcomes
- Words about love and commitment from a non-religious perspective
- Reading or poem
- The couple’s story – how they met, their shared values, hopes for the future
- What marriage means to the couple
- Reading, poem or song
- The couple’s promises / vows
- Meaningful symbolic act (e.g. joining hands together with a fabric tie)
- Exchange of rings
- Pronouncement as married
- Words of well-wishing
- Closing and departure
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Are there any famous Humanists?
There are many celebrities who have adopted the Humanism way of life.
Sandi Toksvig, The Great British Bake Off presenter, is a patron of Humanists UK.
Author, actor and TV presenter Stephen Fry is also a high-profile Humanist and has often been involved in religious debates and accused of blasphemy.
Writers Virginia Woolf, George Eliot, and late scientist Stephen Hawking were also Humanists as is Margaret Atwood, Matt Healy from The 1975 and comedian Ricky Gervais.